For those with spouses who aren’t overweight, does your spouse understand your struggle to lose weight? Are they supportive of your choice to have weight-loss surgery? How involved were they in the planning process? My husband is of average weight and has never been heavy. He is concerned that something will go wrong during surgery and says he loves me just the way I am. I appreciate his concern but I still want to move forward with having gastric sleeve surgery. How do I get him on board?